What is Karezza? Non-Orgasmic Sex on Purpose
The energies of the boardroom have invaded the bedroom. What are you going to do about it? Given the commotion of modern living — too heavy on guilt and too light on delight – it’s no wonder couples...
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When God Created Sex, She Smiled
Sacred female sexuality, with its feelers in earth-based worship, meets resistance in dogmatic circles. The idea that woman with all her undulating curves and desires can cohabitate with formal...
View ArticleDoes Having a Womb Make Me a Woman?
With our understanding of gender and sexuality transforming, it’s going to take more than biology to answer that age old question: Is it a boy or a girl? As a young child, I climbed trees and rode...
View ArticleYour Secret Erotic Spiritual Self Beckons. Now What?
We grow up with mixed messages about sex. It doesn’t matter how many lovers we’ve bedded or how many wicked deeds we’ve committed in the pursuit of illuminating sexual awakening. Our secret erotic...
View ArticleWith a Name Like Tinamarie, You Think I Could Sing
My Motown twin (may she rest in peace) rocked the airwaves with her lyrics and mood music. Her bodacious tune, I Just Want to Be Your Lovergirl, released stuck (up) conventional restraints from places...
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How much better could sex be if guilt & dogma would just shush up
Those who were raised in religious homes know too well the Gremlin of Guilt and how it plays out in the bedroom. Our reactions to sex are often rooted in dogma. Society responds as if the Puritanical...
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You + Love + Intimacy…only better!
Welcome to you + love + In To Me See…only better. It isn’t always easy being a woman over 40 in our youth & sex obsessed culture. By day you wear the Superwoman cape only to collapse exhausted at...
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I am the love child of my soul
I had a hard experience this week. I was at a training session with people from the holistic health care field. More than once, I felt like I didn’t belong there. I didn’t have the credentials to be...
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He was my first leading man. Now he’s dying.
If you’ve wondered where I’ve been, why I haven’t written or sent out many newsletter messages these past 3 months, here’s why: my daddy is dying. At 84, he’s lived a full life. Always a looker with a...
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Want better sex? Try breathing better. Here’s how.
Credit: Megan Elizabeth via flickr creative commons In the seminars I teach and with my private clients, there’s one sentence I repeat over and over again. It’s so important and deceptively simple,...
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